Book Spotlight: The Heart of Values

Book Spotlight: The Heart of Values

Most people approach values work intellectually. They:

❌ Pick words from a list

❌ Take an assessment

❌ Get a printout of their “top values”

And then… they’re stuck. Because words on a page don’t change your life.

Knowing your values intellectually won’t transform you.

Living them will.

Because values work isn’t about finding words that sound nice. It’s about finding what’s real.

And once you do, you’ll have something you can trust – something that, no matter how lost you feel, always leads you back to yourself.

Book Spotlight: How to Talk Amongst Your Selves

Book Spotlight: How to Talk Amongst Your Selves

A New Way to Relate to Yourself

This book is about solving the disconnect from your Authentic Self – not by fighting yourself, but by learning to listen, communicate, and lead yourself with heart, with compassion.

✔️ It explains the fundamentals of Self Leadership – the lifelong practice of living and leading from your Authentic Self.
✔️ It teaches Parts Work – how to recognize, understand, and harmonize the different parts of your psyche.
✔️ It includes exercises, dialogue examples, and guided practices to help you start these life-changing inner conversations.
✔️ It helps create safety within your mind, body, and nervous system so you can move beyond fear-driven reactions.
✔️ It shows you how to transform shame, pain, and fear into deeper self-acceptance.

Beyond Positive Intelligence: Why Real Growth Requires More than Just Positivity

Beyond Positive Intelligence: Why Real Growth Requires More than Just Positivity

Positive Intelligence, aka PQ, focuses on identifying and overcoming internal ‘saboteurs’ – so-called negative thought patterns that can interfere with success and wellbeing. While this model resonates with many, it also presents critical limitations, particularly for individuals with histories of trauma, chronic stress, or unresolved inner conflict.

This article examines the strengths and shortcomings of the PQ framework, exposes the risks of oversimplified coaching approaches and inadequate coach education, and makes the case for a more trauma-wise, compassionate, and heart-centered approach – one that supports both coaches and individuals in fostering deeper self-awareness, self-acceptance, healing, and authentic growth.

HeartRich Resilience: Developing A System for Authentic Flourishing

HeartRich Resilience: Developing A System for Authentic Flourishing

Imagine a compass guiding you in life, not just to “survive” but to live deeply, meaningfully, and resiliently. The HeartRich Resilience Compass is designed with nine interconnected facets, each representing an area of your inner world and a suite of principles and processes or skillsets we can learn.

When you learn to turn these ‘Dials of Influence’ from the negative, destructive side toward the positive, life-affirming side, you begin to embody your truest self. You no longer react out of fear, avoidance, or survival; instead, you consciously choose your responses, acting with intention, clarity, and heart.

A Year of Reckoning and The Call for Love and Courage

A Year of Reckoning and The Call for Love and Courage

I had not one inkling that the final year of my 40s would turn out the way it did. This past year has reshaped both my inner and outer life in ways I could never have anticipated. I hate to admit it, but I was incredibly naïve, and ignorant. The writing was quite literally, on the wall….

As I turned 50 just days ago, I find myself contemplating how this year of horror, trauma, violence, and hatred has fundamentally shifted my identities – as a Jew, an Israeli, a Canadian, a family man, friend and neighbor, and as a professional who tries to bring more heart to the world.